Saturday, November 27, 2010

Information Night - Dec. 7

A two-hour presentation is scheduled at the Special Education District of McHenry County (SEDOM) on December 7th for parents or other individuals who are interested in learning more about the services of Pioneer Center for Human Services and of Options & Advocacy for McHenry County.

This program will run from 6:00PM to 8:00PM at the SEDOM Center, 1200 Claussen Drive, Woodstock. Representatives from Pioneer Center and Options & Advocacy will present information about services and answer your questions.

There is no charge for this program.

R.S.V.P. Gay Szara at gszara@sedom.org or call her at 815/338-7411

See information also at http://www.pioneercenter.org/ and www.optionsandadvocacy.org/

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Special Ed Survey – Spring 2010 (Part 2)

In the Spring 2010 survey of parents of Special Ed students, Woodstock District 200 was to circulate the survey form to parents of all special ed students. This would be over 1,000 students. The number of parents? 500-750?

How many surveys were returned? I reported the number earlier this year. Off the top of my head, I think there were about 61 completed surveys. I think there were nine parents who indicated they did not want a Parent Advisory Council. At the time I wondered, “Where are the other 500???”

Following are some of the programs and training that parents want:

Special Ed procedures
IEP vs. 504 plans
Building partnerships
Special Ed law
Parent training
Special Ed eligibility
Allergies and medications
IEPs
Least Restrictive Environments (LREs)
Outside agency involvement
Homework help
Bullying
Discipline
Autism/sensory/emotional/behavior
After school programs
Health support
Inclusion
Case management
Tips for parents
Transportation
Preparing for the future
Adult/Care
After high school
OT/eating disorders
Asperger’s
Reading help

If the school district thought it had to provide all of this training and these programs, they would run for cover. They don’t. Parents will participate, help, lead, do, plan, provide.

What the school district can do is stop getting in the way. It’s going to take more than a few parents to make this happen.

Are you a Woodstock D-200 parent? Contact me, and I’ll help you get in touch with other local parents.

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Special Ed Survey – Spring 2010 (Part 1)

What do parents want for their kids in Special Education in Woodstock?

One way to find out, if you are school personnel, is to assume you know and then just force-feed it to the parents. This is how some school districts operate. I attended a meeting in Huntley of parents of special ed students, and I heard administrators say more than once, “We know what is best for your kid.”

Yeah, sure. How does a teacher or school staff member know what is best for a kid with autism or some other disability, without knowing all the ways in which that particular child reacts to changes in his environment?

“Just sit still.”
“Don’t talk.”
“Don’t move.”
“Don’t throw…”

Back in the Spring of 2010 I approached the Woodstock District 200 Special Ed Department to conduct a survey of parents. To its credit, it did. The Department even compiled the results of the survey. What it did with them after that, is anyone’s guess.

I tried to get a Parent Advisory Council formed and functioning before school let out. It didn’t happen.

I tried to get a Parent Advisory Council formed and functioning during the summer, because half the parents who responded wanted to meet during the summer. It didn’t happen.

I tried to get a Parent Advisory Council formed and functioning this fall. No luck.

In fact, now I’ve been told that I can visit certain programs, but I shouldn’t expect to be further involved. The reason? My stepson “aged out” of Special Ed when he reached his 22nd birthday last July, and now I no longer have a child in the District’s schools.

Many of us special ed parents have learned a great deal about special education laws, the Illinois State Board of Education, WrightsLaw.com, advocacy, accommodations and programs that will help kids in special ed and help their parents to navigate the system. Should other parents have to fight all the battles all over again, or can they learn from the experiences of others? They can, if those parents are included and permitted to share their experiences.

Obviously, learning from others is the fastest way. But some school districts discourage that by separating and isolating the parents. What they fail to acknowledge is the “Team” approach to educating the special ed kid. The parent is a valuable, and equal, member of the Team.

Most parents don’t feel part of any team, when it comes to their kids’ education.

A Parent Advisory Council is an important step for a school district, and it shouldn’t be feared by a school district. Yet it is. Well, parents are tired of being kept in the dark.

Some of us are ready to turn up the lights! See Part 2 for what parents asked for in last spring’s survey.